Monday, February 28, 2005

قضت

اصباحكم الخير..أشلونكم..الحمدالله الأجازه قضت على ما سهّل الله..تصدقون مرت من غير ما أحس فيها..و حتى الليله اللي ما كان عندنا فيها شئ..تجمعنا أنا ويا البنات..لا و سهرنا ..ونطرح موضوع وايد
At 16مهم..كيفيه تربية الأبناء..طبعا اللي فتح الموضوع كان مدونة جويره
غالبيتنا عندهم بنات..و دائما الخوف على البنت أكثر من الولد..هذا مو معناته أن طريقة التربيه تختلف و لا نوعيه الضوابط ..لأ كلش..بس عادة الأم تخاف على البنت أكثر..فنرجع حق موضوعنا..اشلون نقدر نراقب العيال من غير ما نحسسهم أن في عدم ثقة فيهم..طبعا وحده قالت نغرس فيهم التربيه الدينيه (طبعا ما أقدر أوصف لكم الصيحه اللي صارت علي هالنقطه) و بهالطريقه أهمه راح يراقبون نفسهم..وحده ثانيه قالت صداقة عيالي.. وكل من اييب من راسه صوت..شان تقول لي وحده ..نانو سألي أصدقائك البلوغرز شلون نقدر نراقب عيالنا من غير ما نهز ثقتهم بنفسهم؟؟
يهمن أسمع جوابكم

23 comments:

Zaydoun said...

يعني الحين صديقاتج ناطرين الحل من معشر البلوغرز؟

nanonano said...

زيدون ليش اتفلسف..طبعا لأ بس يبون يعرفون وجهات نظر أخرى غير المجموعه اللي أحنا فيها..و بعدين أنت الموضوع ما يخصك لأن ما عندك عيال

بومريوم said...

تصدقين انا كل يوم اسال نفسى هل السؤال

يعنى لحد الان الحمد لله
so far so good

بس أفكر بعدين...فترة الثانويه و المراهقه..الثقه الزايده خطره و المراقبه الزايده أخطر

انا اللى متبعه مع العيال نقطتين
اول شى ان تكون عندهم الشجاعه ان يتحملون نتيجة افعالهم

و ثانى شى ان يتأنون باختيار الاصدقاء

lisa said...
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bo_ghazi said...

على رأي المثل "قل لي من هم أصدقاؤك أقل لك من أنت". صحيح أن الواحد بوده أن يبين لأبناءه أنه واثق فيهم و لكن الرقابة ضرورية خاصة بوقتنا هذا اللي المخدرات متواجدة بسهولة الله يبعدكم و يبعدنا عنها. بس للأسف اللي قاعدين نشوفه الحين جيل متربي تربية خدم و الأهل ولا يدرون عنهم بس شاطرين طاخ طورباخ و سطرله جم ولد أو بنت و اقبض خمسين دينار دعم حكومي

bo_ghazi said...

نانو ، منو هذي ليسا و شسالفة الترامادول اللي قاعدة تحن عليه
؟

Purgatory said...

Simple, tough love. I am the boss, and that is all they need to know.

nanonano said...

بو مريوم
&
bo_ghazi:
كلامكم صح التركيز على الأصدقاء بس المشكله اللي الحين الأهل ما يدرون عن عيالهم..كلّه طاشين..ذاك اليوم صديقتي قاعده تقول لي رايحه المدرسه حق عيالها عشان العيد الوطني..فيه ناس دازين الفلبينيات عشان يصورون عيالهم..يعني شنو هالأم أو الاب اللي مايعلمون
bo_ghazi:
والله بو غازي أنا ما أدري شنو سالفتها..تدري شلون بسأل زيدون أهوه ضليع بالأمور البلوغريه

bo_ghazi said...

Purg, I feel sorry for P4 & his purple butt :P

Purgatory said...

bo_ghazi, hahahaha, discpline is the only thing that works, military style! especially with someone like P4

True Faith said...

You give them trust and be sure that they choose good friends, be their friend and their friends friend. as my mom does with me and my sister.

Jewaira said...

Lol Nano just delete Lisa she is one of those idiotic spammers.

As for your question,I suppose the best thing is to start talking to your kids before they get to be teenagers and find themselves run by hormones. Then they will not listen to you but think they know better than you.

So talking about situations they might face and how to deal with them is important and also the importance of values.

You cannot protect your child nor be there for him/her forever. But you can teach him/her lifeskills.

Also, I don't think being too strict is the answer either. Because they will always find a way around you.

Bo Jaij said...

لا أعتقد أن تعليقى سيكون ذا فائدة أو حتى مقبول عند الحديث عن تربية أطفال

اما عن تربية أفراد الحكومة و مجلس الأمة فلا أعتقد أن هناك أفضل من التجحش بتعليق كل واحد مع يشته من ريوله و تجحيشه حتى يترب عدل





تصحيح

بعد التفكير مرة أخرى بالموضوع أعتقد أن أعضاء الحكومة و المجلس يستثارون جنسيا عند الضرب و لهذا سيبطل المفعول و سنراهم يضحكون و سيسيل لعابه من الوناسة

Jelly Belly said...

walla ya nanonano I'm not a parent yet but I wanna tell you how my parents raised us...my parents were not very strickt on us...my dad wanted us to make mistakes to learn from them...and he always reminded us this is our lives and he won't live forever for us so whatever we decide to do in our lives will affect us more than anyone else.

Judy Abbott said...

nanno zeen etsaween eb zaydoun.
but i don't agree with the fact of friends ...
i have friends and none of them presents me or have anything in comon with me...
there are the good ones and there are the bad ones and still they are not good that i can say i am on their steps.

i am a girl in my 20's and i believe i have been through all what you are talking about, it is a scary sociaty and i still believe that in this country i can't find a friend that i wouldn't be vary careful around.

simple you want to keep an eye on you girl and you don't want her to lose her trust , you should make her blieve and she her self agree that what you see wronge she sees it wronge..it all starts from elementry school ., leave her express her self and her thought freely .

i see friends of mine they can't tell their family that a guy was chansing her in the streets to give hin her number 'kharabee6 yahal' so this girl end up talking to her friends about it and she fell in that track and now she is asking for help. so my point is if families where that close and religious and don't leave their girls express and talk of what is going on around them with the oppisite sex in her family 'spacially' she will never understand why its wronge to do such things.
in certain age we girls need to hear the oppiste sex opinion and to know how do they think.. (fothool)

so from my experience with all my girl friends this is what i conclode what is leading them to join the gangs out there ..
i hope you get what i mean and sorry geragt wayed.

Purgatory said...

no post today, ghareeba, ya3ni you are working for a change :P

mosan mosan said...

Talking from experience make the enjoy sports or a kind of a hobby that will develop them and make them spend there time in malls.
Purg: yes she is working and all systems are down that resulted her in pissy mood.

Purgatory said...

mosan, then stay in your cubicle and close hmm, well find cover!

nanonano said...

Mosano & P72:
with friends like U who needs anemy!!!!

mosan mosan said...

LoL that is funny

Purgatory said...

for some reason I read that as enema

Jewaira said...

Purgatory that was nasty!

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