Tuesday, December 28, 2004

وفاة الزوجه

أمس جمعتنا الاسبوعيه أنا و صديقاتي...فوحده من البنات طق كوعها بحافة الطاوله طبعا عورها..فنطرح موضوع أن الطقه هذي تساوي حرة الزوج لما تتوفى زوجته...يعني ألمها ما تتعدى ثواني و بعدين كل شئ يصير زين..فبدينا نناقش أزواجنا أذا متنا شنو يسوون..أنا شخصيا زوجي قال لي بمنتهى الصراحه :أنا راح أزعل كم يوم و بعدين راح أمارس حياتي بمنتهى الحريه..لأني أدري أن أفتك مني..بس الطامه الكبرى لما صديقتي قالت لا أنا سألت زوجي اذا راح يزعل لما أموت و لأ؟ و ما تتخيلون أشلون وجهها كان بمنتهى البراءه لما قالت أن أهوه قال لها: أنا ما راح ألاقي مثلك و كله راح أذكرك بالخير و اهيه تقول خنقتني العبره ..كسر خاطري..ما أقولكم عن الصرخه اللي يتها..منا أحنا صدقتييييييييييه؟
شان تقول ايه صدقته!!طبعا يعني أنا ما أعتقد أن فيه رجال ممكن يزعل و يظل طول عمره وفي لزوجته..

30 comments:

Purgatory said...

Life goes on, that is the proper way to handle the matter.

If the issue is about being involved in another relationship after the death of the wife, that has to be evaluated aganist the circumstances and situation. The younger you are, the more options you have.

Of course, if kids are involved, their opnions should be taken into consideration, as in many cases, parents go on with their lives, without even thinking of their kids.

Luckily I am still single, so I do not have to worry about that, but does not mean I have not evaluated all scenarios in preparation.

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Jelly Belly said...

Yeah no Taj Mahal would be built in our honor that's for sure.

mosan mosan said...

the next wife will defiantly be a bitch and may be that what he deserves, don’t be upset get a toy boy, don’t wait until you die : )(polo shirt theory)

nanonano said...

Mosan:منو قالك ان راح يتزوج مره ثانيه أنا زوجي قال لي ان مو غبي عشان يعيد التجربه
و الازواج الثانين يقولون اذا فكروا بالزواج فعشان اليهال مع اني أشك في ذلك
بس على قولت صديقتي راح أموت من الحره اذا صار كريم ويا الزوجه الثانيه كل ليله راح أطلع لهم في صورة شبح و لا أخليها أتهنى

Jelly Belly said...

nanonano: LOL...I just had a mental picture of your friend haunting her husband and his new wife...hahahahha...that would be something worth watching!
I don't know why but I remembered the movie She Devil...she took revenge against her husband in the most evil ways...hahahahha...I just love that movie.

bora bora said...

Life goes on

If I could , I would introduce widows and widowers to each other.
Why end up alone? Children will have their own lives o zain itha shifnahum once a week.
I wouldn't mind if my grandma tizawwijat. I'll be very happy.
madri lesh its considered 3aib in our society if older divorced or widowed women got married ??

nanonano said...

bora bora: darling u didn't get the point
رياييلنا يبون الفكه منا

Purgatory said...

Nano, what is your solution :)?

nanonano said...

P72: Kill them

bora bora said...

nanonano:

بطرانين .. مو مقدرين النعمة اللي أهمه فيها
محد إمدلل كثرهم .. كل واحد اشكبره عباله ليلحين مراهق ماله خلق يتحمل مسئولية

Purgatory said...

:) Nano, read what you said again. The post is about how men would remain faithful to their wives should they die before them. Now you want to kill the husband before the wife is dead. How would that fix the problem ? :)

nanonano said...

P72:
لأ أنت ما فهمتني..أنا متقبله الموضوع بصدر رحب ..النقطه اهني أن الرجل الكويتي لا يتحلى بصفة الوفاء و نفس الكلام ينطبق على المرأه اللي راح ما تتزوج مره ثانيه عقب ما ملت من حنة و لغوة و دلع زوجها راح تقول عووووووووع حق الرياييل

Purgatory said...

Nano,

Ok, still confused, but I think I know what you mean.

Jewaira said...

I always seem to come in at the end of the discussion! :(
Nano the way you said it is so funny I could just imagine all of you tearing your men to pieces.
My partner says that if he dies first he will haunt me forever!! But I always say if I go first then of course you should continue your life after the proper mourning time. It is not because I don't love him but why should I keep him chained to me even in death?
It is not an insult to my memory

Purgatory said...

Jewaira,

at the end yes, but wise words of course. You need to give courses too :)

nanonano said...

laish entaw wayed 9ayrien methalien?? ana maby zoujy yestanes 3ogeb ma amout ana fi el gaber we ohwa mestanes ma3a el7ariem!!!

Purgatory said...

Nano, come back and haunt him then :P

Jewaira said...

Nano
Walla ithableen 7abeebti. Ma aftiker yagder yestanes ma3a wa7da gairich ;)

P72
Two wise lions giving advice :)

mydream said...

nano : etha ohwa mat gablich shino ra7 etsawen? o ohwa lama sa'alteh mas'elech? o enty bet7azneen 3alaih 6ool 3omrich etha mat?

shaklich emyanenta wa3alaya khaleh yestanes ;P

oo esmela 3alaich tawich esghera laish etfakren eb hal ashya'a!

nanonano said...

لأ اهوه اذا مات قبلي راح أصير الأرمله الطروب و أهوه يدري و بعدين أمس الصج حسيت بتأنيب الضمير لأن قال لي أنا أبي أموت قبلك عشان ما أحس بالوحده...حرام كسر خاطري وايد أحبه لأن وايد أطيب مني

mydream said...

allah laya7remkom min ba3ath enshallah :) walah enty ele mako a6yab minech :**

Jewaira said...

Nano
Kisar kha6ri ana ba3d- la ashwah 3ayal el reyayeel feehom kheir

CheekyMonkey said...

If my husband dies, i'd give a 6 month mourning period....and then go fishing :-)

Purgatory said...

Nano, see, he is good, wo entee kentee u will be casper :P

Jewaira, Raaaaar ;)

Joshua_tree said...

I do not think you could generalize. your blog reminded me of this old joke:
A man returns from the doctor and tells his wife that he has only 24 hours to live. Given this, the man asks his wife for sex. Naturally, she agrees. They make love. About 6 hours later, the husband goes to his wife says, "Honey, you know I now have only 18 hours to live. Could we please do it one more time?" Of course, the wife agrees, they do it again.

Later, as the man gets into bed, he looks at his watch and realizes that he now has only eight hours left. He touches his wife's shoulder, asks, "Honey, please . . . just one more time before I die." She says, "Of course, dear." They make love for the third time.

After this session, the wife rolls over falls asleep. The man, however, worried about his impending death, tosses turns, until he's down to four more hours. He taps his wife, who rouses. "Honey, I have only 4 more hours. Do you think we could . . . ."

At this point the wife sits up and says, "Listen, I have to get up in the morning. You don't

Jewaira said...

Now that made me smile! ;)

Jelly Belly said...

Happy New Year sweetie :)

mydream said...

happy new year :** shaklich lil7een nayma hehe ;P

 
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