Monday, November 01, 2004

misunderstanding

Master Zaydoun asked me not to blogg something personal, so I wouldn’t be misunderstood, but the problem is I want to get some answers: what’s best in Q8 to stay single or to get married and do what ever you want to do because you are married and use your status as a cover…
(No hidden agenda in my question)

12 comments:

Shurouq said...

Nanonano
You can stay single and do whatever you want to do, no?

Good luck blogging

nanonano said...
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nanonano said...

Sherouq: it's not simple to stay single here in Q8 and bare the presure

shady q80 said...

Make sure the spouse is in on the plan, otherwise not a good reason to get married.

nanonano said...

Shady: sometimes the spouse turn 2 b completly diffrent person after marriage

shady q80 said...

Actually, that is a guarantee as people change as time moves along. But what is your point, they might go for it then back out?

nanonano said...

Shady: no i mean when u r in love everything will b perfect but when u get married u have to deal with reality so why get married in the first place if u have your freedom while u r single

Mama Fusla said...

I have come to understand that even the coldest of hearts, the most independent of individuals need companionship.

Single people sometimes overmarket their status, how many singles do you know brag about being single yet you know deep inside they're in desperate need to care and be cared for by a partner/lover? And would jump into anything that might cross their path!

Its much safer to say "At this point of my life, I choose to be single and I am comfortable with it" Rather than declare a war on matromony in general.

In troubled times such as war or natural disasters, more people get married because many realise the importance of having a comforting partner to help them through the distress like in for ex. post 9/11!

If we get our comfort and support from parents until we find another source, will we ever need to detach emotionally from our families?(parents, siblings, aunts/uncles, cousins and family friends)

Until you've slept or eaten alone for a significant period of time, that is when you will value companionship.

All in all, if being one or the other (committed or single) guarantees complete satisfaction, everyone would choose one or the other.

The single vs. married life is an issue in every society, not just here.

Zaydoun said...

Well said, Mama

I also read about New Yorkers having "blackout sex" when the power went out last year. I waited to have blackout sex when the power went out here on Sunday, but nothing happened :-(

The Don ® said...

I thought of the same thing Zaydoun, but night never came while we were on black out.. so I didn't put my hopes hi as you.. and Nano, single is great.. no worries what so ever.. at least I think so.. but I know what kinda presure you're talkin' about, and you're a girl your presure is doubled...

Jim said...

Greetings from Florida!

I think being single stinks, but being with someone who is a tyrant is worse. If you meet someone you really start to care about, look into his past and see how he has treated people, especially women. Men make alot of promises but their pasts tell you the truth.
Good luck-
jim
www.jamesowen.blogspot.com

nanonano said...

Hi Jim: very intresting blog..
thank u for your comment but here in the arab world that doesn't apply to MEN

 
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